Audio: How to Handle Conflict, Part 3

"Pellets Fired From Shotgun," Harold Edgerton, 1964, Met

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:3
Matthew Raley (2-19-12)

Suppose you see a man with a knife about to lunge at someone in a crowded marketplace.  Would you be justified in firing a shotgun at the criminal?  I think we’d all agree that no amount of good intentions would justify  such a reckless response which risks so much collateral damage.  But I notice that people feel justified in firing off verbal shotguns at others when they see something wrong.  Insults, sweeping generalizations, and outright slander fly from their mouths, and they imagine that they are doing right.

As we conclude our study of Paul’s command to guard our unity, we’ll look more closely at self-control in our use of words.

February 19, 2012

Upcoming Sermon Audio for February 19, 2012

We apologize for the delay in uploading the audio for Pastor Matt’s sermon on February 19, 2012.  Due to complications with the recording it is taking a little longer to get it in the appropriate format.  The sermon should be up by the end of this week.  Thanks for your patience.

Audio: How to Handle Conflict, Part 2

Every conflict has spectators. (Horatio Ross, 1858, Met)

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4.3
Matthew Raley (2-12-12)

In Part 1 of our series, How to Handle Conflict, we learned that God has a purpose for conflicts.  He allows them in order to teach us how to trust him.  In other words, we don’t really learn how to trust God until we stop trying to control other people.  Through the rest of this series we will be exploring practical ways to trust God in the middle of a conflict.

Today we will focus on what the scriptures teach about information:  how to gather it,  interpret it, and handle it.  Information is not neutral.  It can either quell conflict or inflame it. The way you deal with information can involve you either in right actions or in sins.

February 12, 2012

Audio: How to Handle Conflict, Part 1

Harry Suchland, 1963, MoMA

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:3
Matthew Raley (2-5-12)

We know that the gospel is aimed at peace, both between human beings and God, and between human beings themselves.  Why then does God allow conflict when it is so costly, painful, and often destructive?  Is it possible that he has a purpose for it?

In today’s sermon we find that in answering that question we can learn more about how to guard unity in the church.

February 5, 2012

Audio: “Enduring in Love”

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:2
Matthew Raley (1-29-12)

Everyone wants more love – for themselves.  When people complain that a church, for instance, is not “loving”, they are often really talking about the ways they wish they would be treated.  They are not usually talking about the actions they themselves are going to take to do love in that church.  Love-talk is very often a disguised drive to control other people.  This is not what Ephesians is about.  In today’s message we will ask:  how can we find a way to love others that is genuinely Christ-like?

Jan 29, 2012

Audio: “Humility and Meekness”

"The Dove," Pablo Picasso, 1949, MoMA

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:2
Matthew Raley (1-22-12)

In Ephesians 4:2 we find that the first ways Paul mentions for us to walk worthy of our calling are with humility and meekness.  By way of reminder, Paul is speaking from an ancient mindset, one which accepts that there are expectations outside of ourselves which we need to meet to be considered worthy.  He is saying that humility and meekness are two of those expectations in Christ.  Further, we will learn in today’s sermon that Paul is speaking from the perspective of bonds between people – the fact that some relationships must be held as holy.  The relationship between believers is holy in Christ, and must be treated with special care.

Jan 22, 2012

Audio: “The Bond of Peace”

“The Musicians’ Brawl,” Georges de La Tour, ca. 1630, Met

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:1-6
Matthew Raley (1-15-12)

An orchestra has many players, sometimes eighty individuals, playing instruments of all sizes and shapes, making very different sounds.  How can such a large, diverse group, all with parts that differ, make a common sound?  Well, it all starts with one pitch, an “A” played by an oboe.  Once the players make their instruments agree on that pitch, they have a chance to make music.  And good musicians are very fussy about pitch because there are only two relationships you can have with it: in-tune and out-of-tune.

Likewise, a church is filled with diverse people.  In today’s message we will see that in order for all those people to work together, they have to tune themselves to the right pitch.

January 15, 2012

Great Work Day Last Saturday

Once again, thanks to everyone who worked this last Saturday, January 14th, painting the exterior of the church.  We got a lot done and there was a wonderful spirit of enthusiasm throughout the morning.  For those of you who weren’t able to attend, check out these pics.

Audio: “Worthiness in Christ”

Put Peace into Practice
Ephesians 4:1-6
Matthew Raley (1-8-12)

"boom," Gary Simmons, 2003, MoMA

My early experiences in ministry were filled with out-of-control conflicts fueled by lies, grudges, power-plays, and secret sins.  All these things led to endless fighting, and lots of destruction.  These experiences taught me the high priority of peace as God’s tool for cleansing his people, and forced me to learn the nuts-and-bolts of building peace.

Today we begin a series about the core of Ephesians, the Gospel of peace by which Jesus Christ rules his church.

Jan 8, 2012

Audio: “Honor the Lord With Your Wealth”

Giving as a Way of Life
Proverbs 3:1-12
Matthew Raley (1-1-12)

Get out of money's emotional jail. (Image: Metropolitan Museum)

The emotion many of us associate with our financial situation is resignation.  Once the cash is gone in the middle of the month, we heave a sigh and pull out the plastic.   Unless your view of money is transformed, you will always be imprisoned in this emotional jail.  In today’s sermon we will learn that a transformation of your view of money calls you to go deeper than just saying, “There’s not enough.  I need more.”  It calls you to see your use of money as an expression of your spiritual health.

Jan 1, 2012

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